How to get a date with a waiter girl
Have you ever experienced a situation when you see a cute girl that will be your server this evening, but you don’t know whether it will be polite to ask her out? Will you grab her attention, considering there is a plenty of same random strangers and everyone as perceived as a customer, rather than a handsome stranger. How to cross the border of a social duties and ask her out?
1. Be polite
Start of a good vibe. You have no idea how many jerks and greedy customers a usual waiter encounters throughout the day. After a waitress introduces herself, try to be as nice as possible. The goal is to impress the person in the shortest amount of time. Don’t be rude or too forward. Never ask a waitress about when her shift will end, because it might create an impression that you will be waiting for her the whole day, and that is just creepy. A girl might be instantly scared off, she will be anxious and can possibly ask for help.
You may also want to introduce yourself back and if there is something wrong with the order, don’t be too pissed off and quietly wait for the food to come. Never interrogate a poor girl because she will not know what’s up with your order either – she’s just a waitress.
2. Don’t ask her number
It is extremely annoying to be hit on by a stranger, especially during your shift. Imagine this girl has to enter the restaurant at 7 o’clock, do the cleaning, run between the tables to serve all the orders and not annoy the customers. A poor girl expects good tips after she has been working like crazy, and all she gets is a creepy pickup line and an offer to give a number. Don’t question if she will simply go away or ask a manager if you will be too direct. So respect other peoples’ rights and don’t be a jerk!
3. Tip her
According to https://www.bls.gov/oes/current/oes353031.htm , waitresses make from 10 to 12 $ an hour. The best way to win a waiter’s appreciation is to give a good tip. Be sure she sees how much you are giving out. There is no way that she will be displeased by your tips. Remember it doesn’t need to seem like a bribery. By the way, according to https://www.theatlantic.com/business/archive/2015/02/how-much-do-waiters-really-earn-in-tips/385515/ , the amount of money a waitress get in an hour equals $7, so giving people money who came here for a job is a best way to win her heart.
4. Make a subtle compliment
Unless you are in a Slavic country and you want to marry Russian girl who can fight you back, you want to be as subtle as possible, because it is easier to call a manager than to quarrel with you. Your comments shouldn’t be insisting, you should sound as pleasant and nice as possible. The best way to ask a waitress on a date is to say that you genuinely liked her and she looks beautiful (not only cute or sexy). If the girl seems unbothered, leave her alone. Of she smiles, say that you often go to this place and would be happy to meet her again, as a professional and as a person. Let her feel friendly and relaxed before you go to the second base. All in all, you don’t need to hurry and distract a person from her work. The more interested and subtle you are, the better.